Mothers who have lost custody time to write Russian President Putin

If you are a mom who has lost custody and contact of your child because of a judges ruling, please read carefully. If you were a loving caring mom that was trying to protect her child and then was accused of PAS from either a court appointed psychologist or a guardian-ad-litem, maybe it’s time to reach for outside help. Pedophilia is not good in any form, yet many fathers are found to have lots of child pornography on their computers. If a mother suspects her child is being molested or touched inappropriately she is immediately labeled crazy, an alienator and often has her child taken from her only to be put with the abuser. I hear these stories over and over.

But our government has decided that moms aren’t that important in the lives of their children and they are more caught up in tolerating anything a father does as long as he stays in that child’s life. Now many of you have been accused of PAS by the very person who is committing this act. Are you aware that PAS was developed by a Dr. Richard Gardner who I will quote from his book, and my own court appointed psychologist Dr. Sherry Bourg- Carter quoted from believes “It is perfectly natural for a father to touch his child in a sexual manner, and a parent should teach their children that this is okay”. Hard to believe but all across the country moms who worried that their children were being abused actually get punished by these people of the courts who think it is okay to touch your children sexually.

Are you aware that for years now there is a group called NAMBLA which stands for   “The North American Man/Boy Love Association (NAMBLA) is a pedophile and pederasty advocacy organization in the United States. It works to abolish age of consent laws criminalizing adult sexual involvement with minors,^[1][2] and campaigns for the release of all men who have been jailed for sexual contacts with minors that did not involve coercion.^[1][3] ” This a a gay organization that has been working quietly but diligently behind the scenes to get a law passed for older men to have legal sex with young boys. Are you aware that of the giant Catholic Priest scandal that all of those men were homosexuals, yet somehow our government and media hasn’t been able to connect the dots. Is there one female organization in the USA in which women have gone after young girls with the same fervor?

So just what the hell is happening in this country? Are we willing to look the other way  because the Gay agenda and lobbying power is so strong that judges, psychologist and GALS are willing to sacrifice the future of children by placing them in the homes of abusers.

If you are a mom who has lost custody of your child and accused of being crazy or PAS than maybe it’s time to do something very radical. I am contacting President Putin as he seems to be the only person concerned about the safety of children in our overly promiscuous environment. Don’t believe me just check on your internet and see how much child pornography there is in the USA. Check to see if your husband or ex-husband has child-pornography, bring this to the judge, just like they don’t pay any attention to moms, children or even DCF, my guess is they will just ignore it, just like they ignore all other reports of child molestation. 58,000 children a year are reported to have been abused, so unless there are a multitude of strangers abusing our children, then there is only one other place that it can happen.

We are asking Putin to join us in exposing America’s total disregard for the safety of it’s children. The enemy of my enemy is my friend. We are currently living in a society that is in total denial and wouldn’t even deal with the problems that gay fathers cause in our homes, never mind straight fathers. We are living in a society in which you are not allowed to expose one truth of something being wrong in the gay community. we are living in a society that is forcing a Gay agenda on our children who don’t even understand a straight agenda. Children are being forced to have boys in the girls bathroom, because they are transgender. If that is the case then make them a special bathroom. But we are in such a sexual promiscuous society that it is willing too accept any deviant form of sexuality, that if you dare speak up about it, you will be called a bigot, a homophob, intolerant. Isn’t that a joke coming out of the mouths of the most intolerant people who are forcing their lifestyles on us, which we don’t want our children exposed to a such a small age. No we are not all a like, no you aren’t tolerant, when a judge and a newspaper reports that me and my child must get used to a full grown man touching my child in his bed. That is a sick society, devoid of morals. So lets join forces with Putin, he seems to be the only one interested in protecting children of being placed in dangerous situations. I expect a lot of hate mail. I don’t care my ex had AIDS and he tried to infect me and my unborn child, and Broward  County Sexual battery Unit was totally okay with that because he was gay. Michael Satz only seems to prosecute people who try to infect another with AIDS when they are straight.

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Dear Friends, 
There is a great deal of family court reform action going on, but still no resolution in sight.  What can you as one person do about this egregious social justice and human rights issue?   Join us in signing the petition requesting Congressional Oversight Hearings and get all your friends to sign!   https://www.change.org/petitions/hold-congressional-oversight-hearings-on-the-failure-of-family-and-divorce-courts                       ___________________________________________________________________________   Conferences   Saturday April 5, 2014: Twentieth Anniversary Child Sexual Abuse Awareness Conference 9:00 am to 5:00 pm at Veterans’ Memorial Center, 203 E 14th Street, Davis CA 95616   Childhood Trauma: Focusing on Solutions   Keynote Speaker:  Wendy Murphy attorney, former child abuse/sex abuse prosecutor wendymurphylaw.com     Special guest:  Johnna Janis  star of documentary “Invisible Scars” http://pavingtheway.net/wordpress/tag/johnna-janis/  ;   Yolo County Panel:  Creating a Trauma Informed Community   Exhibits:  Museum of Lost Childhoods and the Survivor Quilts   ____________________________________________________________________    Friday May 9 -Monday May 12, 2014: Many events in a few days in Washington DC.   Conference  Battered Mothers and Kids Custody Conference  at George Washington University 9:00 am to 5:00 pm   Friday, May 9 Domestic Violence Advocate Training  with Barry Goldstein and National Coalition Against Domestic Violence  on how to help battered mothers involved in custody cases.   Saturday, May 10 Mothering Under Duress  with Joy Silberg, PhD on how to effectively mother your children when  they are forced to live with abusers. There will be a workshop with Mo  Hannah PhD and a panel with Linda Marie Sacks and other mothers.   Activism   Sunday, May 11 Mothers of Lost Children March at the White House from 11:00 am to 4:00 pm at 1600 Pennsylvania NW.  Wear white clothing and good walking shoes, and bring a hat. Wear  sunglasses and a wig as needed.  Mothers of Lost Children t shirts will  be provided. www.mothers-of-lost-children.com and  https://www.facebook.com/mothersoflostchildren.org    Lobby Day    Monday,  May 12 Lobby Day at the House of Representatives on Independence Ave.  Lobbying information and training will be provided at the conference on  Saturday May 10. We  are working on having another Congressional Briefing to bring the  family court crisis to the attention of our national elected  representatives.    Here is a link to the previous October 2, 2013 Congressional briefing on Protecting Abused Children of Divorce and Separation   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awa_PALX-Ek&feature=em-upload_owner#action=share http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TN6VH2tzWks&feature=em-upload_owner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ap8KDveHgA&feature=em-upload_owner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4nKdi1phvQ&feature=em-upload_owner#action=share   The  formal BMCC is skipping a year, so this is a mini BMCC.  There is no  fee. We will collect cost to cover lunch costs when you get to the  conference. We will need to make our own arrangements for lodging. The  International Hostel and the William Penn House are centrally located  and inexpensive hostels. Travelocity, Priceline and Cheaphotels have  more information on places to stay near George Washington University

War on Protective Mothers

Call to arms, women how many more of us are going to lose our children through a corrupt divorce court industry? Really I ask you what is more important to you than loving protecting and being a part of your child’s life? More than 2 million moms have lost complete custody  and contact with their children. We need to be loud, obnoxious and in our representatives faces. What other issue of today is as important than losing your child? I don’t care what your  politics are when a government can randomly take your child away from you, then they have devalued you and declared an unspoken war on protective moms. How much longer will we sit idly by? I think we should surround the capital with toy guns and large posters  and coffins for our lost children which we mourn over daily and confront these cowards. I don’t give a dam about health care if I don’t have my child. I don’t give a dam about climate change if I don’t have my child. When the Gay people wanted to draw attention to their issue, they gathered in DC and they called them out on their callousness. Maybe we need to take a page from their playbook. I have written a book you can go to http://www.protectingmychild.org and also their is information and many helpful links. But it seems that we spend a lot of time telling our stories online, and yet daily are children are taken from us. I don’t know about any of you but writing and blogging just isn’t enough. We need to stop writing each other and writing our representatives and then make an appointment and show up in their office. We need to form an army.  I will go back to PAS if you are a mom you are caught between a rock and a hard place. Often you are accused of the very thing that is being done to you. We have many psychologists writing about this subject, but so what, as long as the courts don’t pay attention, and often Narcissists are very good actors. And when we tell the truth we are the one being accused of lying or alienating. STOP  STOP  STOP   Every person in America who has experienced this or written about this issue needs to join us in DC on Mother’s Day weekend.

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Dear Friends,  There is a great deal of family court reform action going on, but still no resolution in sight.  What can you as one person do about this egregious social justice and human rights issue?   Join us in signing the petition requesting Congressional Oversight Hearings and get all your friends to sign!   https://www.change.org/petitions/hold-congressional-oversight-hearings-on-the-failure-of-family-and-divorce-courts

___________________________________________________________________________   Conferences   Saturday April 5, 2014: Twentieth Anniversary Child Sexual Abuse Awareness Conference 9:00 am to 5:00 pm at Veterans’ Memorial Center, 203 E 14th Street, Davis CA 95616   Childhood Trauma: Focusing on Solutions   Keynote Speaker:  Wendy Murphy attorney, former child abuse/sex abuse prosecutor wendymurphylaw.com     Special guest:  Johnna Janis  star of documentary “Invisible Scars” http://pavingtheway.net/wordpress/tag/johnna-janis/  ;   Yolo County Panel:  Creating a Trauma Informed Community   Exhibits:  Museum of Lost Childhoods and the Survivor Quilts   ____________________________________________________________________    Friday May 9 -Monday May 12, 2014: Many events in a few days in Washington DC.   Conference  Battered Mothers and Kids Custody Conference  at George Washington University 9:00 am to 5:00 pm   Friday, May 9 Domestic Violence Advocate Training with Barry Goldstein and National Coalition Against Domestic Violence on how to help battered mothers involved in custody cases.   Saturday, May 10 Mothering Under Duress with Joy Silberg, PhD on how to effectively mother your children when they are forced to live with abusers. There will be a workshop with Mo Hannah PhD and a panel with Linda Marie Sacks and other mothers.   Activism   Sunday, May 11 Mothers of Lost Children March at the White House from 11:00 am to 4:00 pm at 1600 Pennsylvania NW. Wear white clothing and good walking shoes, and bring a hat. Wear sunglasses and a wig as needed.  Mothers of Lost Children t shirts will be provided. www.mothers-of-lost-children.com and  https://www.facebook.com/mothersoflostchildren.org    Lobby Day    Monday, May 12 Lobby Day at the House of Representatives on Independence Ave. Lobbying information and training will be provided at the conference on Saturday May 10. We are working on having another Congressional Briefing to bring the family court crisis to the attention of our national elected representatives.    Here is a link to the previous October 2, 2013 Congressional briefing on Protecting Abused Children of Divorce and Separation   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awa_PALX-Ek&feature=em-upload_owner#action=share http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TN6VH2tzWks&feature=em-upload_owner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ap8KDveHgA&feature=em-upload_owner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4nKdi1phvQ&feature=em-upload_owner#action=share   The formal BMCC is skipping a year, so this is a mini BMCC.  There is no fee. We will collect cost to cover lunch costs when you get to the conference. We will need to make our own arrangements for lodging. The International Hostel and the William Penn House are centrally located and inexpensive hostels. Travelocity, Priceline and Cheaphotels have more information on places to stay near George Washington University.   _________________________________________________________________________   August 15 – 17, 2014, between 8:00 am – 5:00 pm A conference to help survivors of severe child abuse (ritual abuse) and torture will be held on Saturday and Sunday at the DoubleTree Hotel near Bradley International Airport, 16 Ella Grasso Turnpike, Windsor Locks, CT 06096 (between Hartford, CT and Springfield, MA).  This conference will help educate survivors of this abuse and their helpers.  Pre-registration is preferred.  For information write  S.M.A.R.T., P. O Box 1295, Easthampton, MA 01027-1295  E-mail: smartnews@aol.com, conference information is at:  http://ritualabuse.us/smart-conference/    _____________________________________________________________________   Excellent Videos and Talk Show   Kathleen Russell (Center for Judicial Excellence) has done a wonderful job of interviewing children of divorce and California whistleblower mediator Emily Gallup.    Children’s Voices: Kids of Divorce Speak Out about Family Court http://centerforjudicialexcellence.org/cje-projects-initiatives/kids-of-divorce-speak-out/   Kathleen and Joy Silberg also spoke on the Wisconsin Public Radio program about the terrible problems when a child discloses child sex abuse in the context of divorce and custody. http://www.wpr.org/shows/troubled-family-courts-and-child-sexual-abuse   ____________________________________________________________________________   Dylan Farrow and Child Sexual Abuse   The Leadership Council has an outstanding discussion and data on child sexual abuse in response to 28-year-old Dylan Farrow’s confirmation of her report when she was seven that actor Woody Allan sexually abused her.   “The current public drama of accusation being played out between Woody Allen’s adoptive daughter Dylan Farrow and Woody Allen is a familiar dynamic to child abuse professionals who work in the family court arena. Unfortunately, child abuse experts know that family court is a difficult venue for a child who alleges sexual abuse to be protected. While in Dylan Farrow’s case, the Judge protected her, in many cases children are forced into ongoing contact despite their allegations.”   For more information, please go to http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/1/blog/df.html   Dylan Farrow   “(A note from Nicholas Kristof: In 1993, accusations that Woody Allen had abused his adoptive daughter, Dylan Farrow, filled the headlines, part of a sensational story about the celebrity split between Allen and his girlfriend, Mia Farrow. This is a case that has been written about endlessly, but this is the first time that Dylan Farrow herself has written about it in public. It’s important to note that Woody Allen was never prosecuted in this case and has consistently denied wrongdoing; he deserves the presumption of innocence. So why publish an account of an old case on my blog? Partly because the Golden Globe lifetime achievement award to Allen ignited a debate about the propriety of the award. Partly because the root issue here isn’t celebrity but sex abuse. And partly because countless people on all sides have written passionately about these events, but we haven’t fully heard from the young woman who was at the heart of them. I’ve written a column about this, but it’s time for the world to hear Dylan’s story in her own words.)”   Here is the rest of the story. http://kristof.blogs.nytimes.com/2014/02/01/an-open-letter-from-dylan-farrow/?_php=true&_type=blogs&_php=true&_type=blogs&_r=1&;     There has been the predictable blowback from kneejerk pedophile protectors supporting Dylan’s incestuous abuser who married his other adopted daughter. There has also been amazing support for Dylan. One excellent response is by Nancy Lee Grahn of General Hospital.   My Thoughts on Dylan Farrow   Posted on February 9, 2014 by Nancy Lee Grahn   “Much is being writ­ten about Dylan Farrow’s open let­ter in Saturday’s New York Times about the sex­ual abuse she suf­fered as a child, thanks to her pow­er­ful adop­tive father, film­maker and cur­rent Oscar nom­i­nee Woody Allen. What isn’t being dis­cussed by the var­i­ous talk­ing heads on every major net­work are the hard and cold facts about child sex­ual abuse, par­tic­u­larly when this life-altering crime is han­dled by fam­ily courts dur­ing a divorce or cus­tody dispute. Dylan wrote that, “There were experts will­ing to attack my cred­i­bil­ity. There were doc­tors will­ing to gaslight an abused child… I didn’t know that he would accuse my mother of plant­ing the abuse in my head and call her a liar for defend­ing me. I didn’t know that I would be made to recount my story over and over again, to doc­tor after doc­tor, pushed to see if I’d admit I was lying as part of a legal bat­tle I couldn’t pos­si­bly understand.” See the rest of this outstanding article and data on child sexual abuse, including statistics, at http://www.nancyleegrahn.com/my-thoughts-on-dylan-farrow/ __________________________________________________________________________   Theatrical production    FORBIDDEN TO PROTECT is a theatrical production co-authored by Lundy Bancroft and Patrice Lenowitz that raises questions about legal responses to domestic violence and child abuse. Through extensive victim interviews, FORBIDDEN TO PROTECT tells the true stories of children who have been required by a family court judge to go into dangerous circumstances where they have been repeatedly harmed by their abusive father. The play demonstrates how most contested custody cases are actually domestic violence or child abuse cases in which abusers have been allowed to use the courts to regain control over their victims and bankrupt the safe protective mom. In all of these stories, judges, lawyers and evaluators have chosen to ignore extensive evidence that the children and mothers were telling the truth, putting the child in harm’s way, and leaving mothers FORBIDDEN TO PROTECT her children and herself. A Theatre Reading of FORBIDDEN TO PROTECT was performed at Bergen Community College on January 27th   Patrice will be a guest of Aleah Holland on her blog radio show this evening called “The Untold Horror Stories of Family Court.”  Please join us tonight, Thursday Feb 13th at 6:00pm EST (3pm PST). Call in number: (661) 551 9123 http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thelegacyofanation/2014/01/30/untold-horror-stories-of-family-courtcps-the-new-holocaust-with-aleah-hollandrn https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-New-Holocaust-Untold-Stories-from-Family-CourtCPS-with-Aleah-RN/203535823178688     __________________________________________________________________________   Article   By Maralee McLean Jan 9, 2014 (WOMENSENEWS)– ” My long involvement in our often archaic and biased judicial system is a journey that should never have been necessary in the face of abuse that should never have occurred. Not much has changed since my battles began, and the myth that mothers make more false allegations of abuse than fathers during divorce and custody battles still holds sway in too many courtrooms. This remains true even though the American Bar Association reports fathers are far more likely than mothers to make intentionally false accusations (21 percent compared to1.3 percent). Change, dramatic change, is needed now, to end these tragic outcomes. At the outset, I had full custody of my little girl and her father had limited visits twice a week. But after raising sexual abuse allegations against her father, and spending three years in the family court trying to protect my daughter, I was reduced to one-hour-a-week supervised visits for eight years and treated as if I were a hardened criminal. This was all due to a custody evaluator’s opinion through an “ex-parte” (a hearing without all the parties present). That evaluator cited Dr. Richard Gardner’s debunked “parental alienation syndrome” and left out all medical reports, police reports and pre-school teacher reports. The ordeal began the day I took my beautiful little girl Ami, freshly bathed, with her dark hair in a high ponytail and wearing a pink dress, to her day care center. On the way I imagined how her father would pick her up for his three-hour visitation that afternoon. That evening, I went to his house to pick up Ami. I knocked and waited until he finally came to the door. He waved me in and said he would get Ami. As I waited, I noticed that Ami’s beautiful clothes were strewn about the living room floor. When he brought her down, Ami was wet, nude and limp in his arms. Her arms dangled at her sides, her ponytail was out of its band and her hair was matted. She was soaked with sweat. My heart sank and my gut pulled tight. “What happened to her?” I asked him. He looked at me with a strange smirk. That may have been the first time he abused our daughter. And that terrible sight of him carrying her down the stairs limp in his arms would wake me out of sleep over and over, causing me to sit straight up in my bed shocked and horrified.”   See the rest of this article at http://womensenews.org/story/in-the-courts/140108/courts-must-open-eyes-and-ears-abused-children#.UtG4VfRDuSp   Legal Remedies recommended by Maralee McLean Move cases like this one to criminal court since sexual abuse and assault are crimes. If one adult does this to another, we call this a crime; why not when a parent rapes and molests a child? Do not let this be addressed in family and child custody courts. Ensure “safety first” for children who report abuse, including safety from those about whom there are reports of sexual and other physical abuse. Bring in multidisciplinary teams and forensic interviewers to videotape the children’s testimony and/or descriptions of the abuse they are experiencing. Recognize parents who are acting in good faith. Completely discontinue parental alienation syndrome and similar arguments. Require the courts to consider past and/or present domestic violence, the abuse of the protective parent herself. Build effective oversight and accountability for judges and training in this arena. Require continuing education taught by experts in child sexual abuse and domestic violence for all court professionals and judicial officers. Include exams to certify passing these courses. Develop a system to more easily remove incompetent, poorly trained professionals, including judges and custody evaluators. Require disclosure of conflicts of interest on the part of all involved in these legal processes at all levels. Require judges to receive training about psychopaths and how they can manipulate the legal processes and family courts.  _______________________________________________________________________   Connecticut action   The US Department of Justice, Attorney General John Hughes indicated to a protective mother that they are going to be investigating Americans with Disabilities Act violations in the Connecticut Judicial Branch.  Attorney Hughes cited letters of complaint as grounds for their decision to proceed to examine the judicial branch.

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1. Contact your Congress member and ask for Congressional Oversight Hearings on the practices of family court that endanger children of divorce and separation. 

      See below for a DOJ timeline template you can use to send your case history to the Congress member to show that this problem is in his or her district.

 

2. Launch your own personal campaign. Now you can manage your own campaign for Congressional Oversight Hearings.

    Click this link and follow the Stop Abuse Campaign’s easy guide: http://stopabusecampaign.com/feature/personalcampaign.

 

 

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Dear Friends,   Many thanks to Andrew Willis of Stop Abuse Campaign for his crucial help in getting us a Congressional Briefing on October 2! We now have the issue of Protecting Abused Children of Divorce and Separation deep into the halls of Congress. Now for your part: We need a massive educational and media campaign and need your help.   1. Contact your Congress member and ask for Congressional Oversight Hearings on the practices of family court that endanger children of divorce and separation. See below for a DOJ timeline template you can use to send your case history to the Congress member to show that this problem is in his or her district.   2. Launch your own personal campaign. Now you can manage your own campaign for Congressional Oversight Hearings. Click this link and follow the Stop Abuse Campaign’s easy guide:http://stopabusecampaign.com/feature/personalcampaign. 3. Take the pledge ensuring every child has a safe child to grow up in.   https://www.causes.com/v2actions/1754447-ensure-child-has-a-safe-home-to-grow-up-in/invitations/806131466?ctag=e38ccf17e15dcc0e83ff6a7ae2c35aa2f5&ctoken=sff8ZsVs7e-bD82ak5MAkZdeqjCfpsKRjGkLkWw2eaNyLdukZddn9pV2v2ooRdaisyTvQVCxGuvOCTUjAilNEw%3D%3D&recruiter_id=17590723&uid=187096603&utm_campaign=activity_invitation_mailer_v2%2Factivity_invitation&utm_medium=email&utm_source=causes  Tell your friends to join us. Everyone has a personal email list. Now is the time to use it.   ________________________________________________________________________________   Four brave mothers filed a joint complaint on November 6, 2013 in the United States District Court, District of Massachusetts, against a variety of judges, court professionals and other officials in Rhode Island and Massachusetts. http://www.mothers-of-lost-children.com/MOLC_events.htm#current (click on Current Events).   Protective mothers from other states can join by contacting Mary Seguin atricourtcon@gmail.com.   Mary also contacted the U.S. Attorney General’s office which requested all victims who would like to come forward to write a timeline following this format.   Who you are: Contact information: Background: Education: Former employment: Criminal record (arrests and convictions): Who your former partner/husband is:  Background: Education: Former employment: Criminal record (arrests and convictions):   Reports of physical or sexual assault/battery and/or incest:   Law enforcement (give name of office and address Date: Name and title of officer: Outcome of investigation and report:   Child Protective Services (give name of office and address): Date: Name and title of worker: Outcome:(including not reporting to criminal authorities to investigate): Court personnel (give title and address): Date:Name and title of professional: Outcome:(including not reporting to criminal authorities to investigate):   Other government entities: Date: Name and title of professional: Outcome: (including not reporting to criminal authorities to investigate):   Intimidation against you that deterred you from reporting: Who intimidated you: How were you intimidated: Gag orders: Who gave you a gag order (name, title, date, place): Rationale given for gag order to not talk about these recurring crimes of incest and assault and battery. Removal of child(ren) from you after you reported criminal physical or sexual assault/battery and/or incest: Name and title of person(s) recommending your children be removed from you Date of recommendation: Where recommendation was filed: Date of order: Where order was filed: Name and title of person ordering your children removed from you: Supervised visitation: Name and title of person recommending you be placed on supervised visits Reason given for recommendation: Name and title of person who ordered you to supervised visits: Date and place order was made: Name of specific visitation center you were ordered to attend: Amount of fees: Dates and times you were ordered to attend: If you were not ordered to a specific visitation center, name of visitation center you chose: Was this center paid by the county: Motions you filed for relief: Date filed Place filed: Who filed the motion: What lawyers were involved: Outcome of the motion: At the end of the time line, please provide a note, “Supporting Evidence is being compiled in Exhibits.”   Please send the timeline to cppa001@aol.com so we can forward them in a group to DOJ.   ________________________________________________________________________   Mothers Rights law firm in Illinois. (This has not been vetted but looks promising!) http://www.manassalaw.com/Divorce-Separation/Mothers-Rights.shtml _____________________________________________________________________   A reporter is interested in recent (2011 and after) Sacramento cases in which a child reported abuse, there was evidence of the abuse, and the child was placed with the identified abuser. Please contact  cppa001@aol.com. ________________________________________________________________________   Maine’s Donna Ferris on radio about the child trafficking ring and federal law suit. Please go to PAS Without a Cause facebook page for more information. http://www.livestream.com/superbigbadman/video?clipId=pla_fe9b7642-7134-45ca-adbd-6ba8d2b8bc9d&utm_source=lsplayer&utm_medium=ui-play&utm_campaign=click-bait&utm_content=superbigbadman   _________________________________________________________________________   Petition for Ryder and Matthew, two children murdered because of criminally negligent family court decisions by Judge Sharon Lueras of Sacramento, CA https://www.change.org/petitions/justice-for-ryder-salmen-and-matthew-hernandez-investigate-judge-sharon-lueras-for-misconduct/sponsors/new?aftersign=true   ________________________________________________________________________   Petition request from Elena Blank to get rid of the moronic oxymoron of forced recommending mediation in California family court. http://www.change.org/petitions/steven-jahr-director-of-the-aoc-chief-justice-abolish-the-concept-of-proposed-mediator-s-recommendation-orders-in-ca-family-law-proceedings?utm_source=supporter_message&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=petition_message_notice ___________________________________________________________________________   French girl videotapes her father’s sexual assault. What a heroine! http://www.salon.com/2013/11/06/14_year_old_girl_films_fathers_sexual_abuse_with_webcam_partner/?utm_content=buffer3652b&utm_source=buffer&utm_medium=twitter&utm_campaign=Buffer _____________________________________________________________________________   Stop Abuse Campaign Partner See the Triumph is Working to End the Stigma Surrounding Intimate Partner Violence See the Triumph (http://www.seethetriumph.org and http://www.facebook.com/seethetriumph) was launched on January 1, 2013 as an effort to provide inspiration to survivors of intimate partner violence and challenge the stigma that surrounds abuse. See the Triumph is based on the research of co-founders Christine Murray and Allison Crowe, both counseling department faculty members at universities in North Carolina. The stories shared in their research with survivors demonstrated that survivors are triumphant, courageous, and resourceful. You can follow See the Triumph on Facebook for more updates on the campaign and take the pledge: https://www.causes.com/v2actions/1762723-pledge-to-tell-survivors-its-not-your-fault.   ________________________________________________________________________________   May 17-18, 2014 ”Survivors Supporting Survivors,” at the Executive Inn & Suites in Oakland, CA. honoring the 25th anniversary of Survivorship, the longest established organization in the country serving survivors of mind control and ritual abuse. The conference Keynote Speaker is Jennifer Freyd, Ph.D. The topic of her talk is What we have learned about Interpersonal and Institutional Betrayal Trauma.   _____________________________________________________________________________   More DOJ action! http://www.enewspf.com/latest-news/latest-national/latest-national-news/47855-justice-department-selects-four-courts-to-identify-promising-practices-in-custody-and-visitation-decisions-in-domestic-violence-cases.html   Department of Justice Office of Public Affairs FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Tuesday, November 12, 2013   Justice Department Selects Four Courts to Identify Promising Practices in Custody and Visitation Decisions in Domestic Violence Cases   Courts in Delaware, Illinois, Minnesota and Oregon to Work with National Experts to Improve Child Custody and Visitation Decision-making The Department of Justice’s Office on Violence Against Women (OVW), in partnership with the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (NCJFCJ), announces the selection of four courts to participate in the Family Court Enhancement Project (FCEP) to improve custody and visitation decision-making for families who have experienced domestic violence. The four courts selected are: Circuit Court of Cook County in Chicago, Ill.; Family Court of the State of Delaware; Hennepin County Family Justice Center in Minneapolis, Minn.; and Multnomah County Family Court in Portland, Ore. “In order to maintain safety for the entire family, it is crucial that judges weigh the dynamics of domestic violence and its impact on both adults and children when making custody and visitation decisions,” said OVW Acting Director Bea Hanson. “Ensuring the safety of domestic violence victims and their children during and after court proceedings is an essential component of the FCEP. This project will provide guidance to courts around the country in implementing proven procedures and practices that keep victims and children safe.” The FCEP, a collaborative project of NCJFCJ, OVW, the Battered Women’s Justice Project, and the National Institute for Justice, is designed to determine what family court procedures, practices and structures related to custody and visitation can help keep victims of domestic violence and their children safe from further violence and trauma. The four courts chosen for the FCEP applied to an open call for concept papers that was issued by NCJFCJ. OVW, NCJFCJ and BWJP reviewed the concept papers based on the criteria set forth in the call. OVW experts have identified, from a series of roundtable discussions and extensive research, challenges that affect the safety of domestic violence victims and their children involved in custody proceedings. These challenges include: failure to identify and understand domestic violence in court and in third-party assessments; structural and procedural barriers; limited legal and advocacy resources; and the effects of race, class, and gender biases on outcomes. Over the next two years, the FCEP and the selected courts will work closely with national domestic violence and court improvement experts to implement better approaches for keeping domestic violence victims and their children safe through and beyond court proceedings. Additionally, the U.S. Department of Justice’s National Institute of Justice will lead efforts on data collection and assisting each site in measuring the impacts of their systems change. According to the CDC, women experience two million injuries from domestic violence each year and approximately one third of all incidents involving female victims take place in homes in which children ages twelve and under reside. More than 15 million American children are exposed to domestic violence each year. Many domestic violence victims and their children will come before a family court, and these courts make custody, visitation and other decisions that will have a significant long-term effect on these children and adults. OVW, a component of the U.S. Department of Justice, provides leadership in developing the nation’s capacity to reduce violence against women through the implementation of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) and subsequent legislation. Created in 1995, OVW administers financial and technical assistance to communities across the country that are developing programs, policies and practices aimed at ending domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault and stalking. In addition to overseeing 22 federal grant programs, OVW often undertakes initiatives in response to special needs identified by communities facing acute challenges. More information is available at http://www.ovw.usdoj.gov. 13-1205 Office on Violence Against Women

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PAS Parent Alienation Syndrome the kiss of Death

I was a stay at home mom, artist and volunteered  locally and in my children’s class. For years my ex-husband went to work for 12 hours a day leaving me in full charge of our children. When it was time for our divorce, he took me in a small room before we sat down with the lawyers and threatened me if I didn’t agree to all his terms he would take my son away from me. I agreed under stress and with that agreement gave him 50/50 custody with the understanding that I would have my son (my daughter was from a previous marriage) the lion’s share of the time, but he would only be required to pay child support as if he had him the rest of the time.

Little did I know that the pick-up and drop-offs of my son would grow into a giant drama that escalated over the years and involved countless encounters with the police. Mostly, my ex would arrive at my home at nine in the evening or on a day that wasn’t his turn and on his way to my home he would call the police to tell them that he hadn’t heard from his son and was concerned to see if he was alright. Time after time I had to show the police the custody schedule as he played the lonely dad who was being denied a relationship with his son. Usually these visits happened because after he would call me repeatedly during the day to order me to do something and I wouldn’t answer his calls, he would use our son as a way to come to my home and get a police report written. This is a very short version of a very long story.

After too many court dates to count and continuous bad episodes I asked the court for a permanent custody schedule. Before I knew it I was labeled delusional, psychotic and a danger to my son. Then I was accused of PAS a term I had never heard of, but one in which I was to find out is used by whores of the court all across America when they are trying to take children away from a good mother. This is a term that has never been used against a father. Most recently a woman named Tina Swintin wrote a book called divorcing a Narcissist and labeled this behavior as Narcissist Personality Disorder (NPD).

If those 3 letters PAS appear in your hearing or from your lawyer or judge, be prepared to go into battle.This Parent Alienation Syndrome is designed to get children away from mothers who they can’t prove that anything is wrong with them. This topic has been written about by many people, but unfortunately until it happens to you or your children, most people have no idea what a damaging concept it is. It is the equivalent to living in a tyrannical country in which your government can take your child at random.

I am sort of new at this blogging stuff, but I did write a book on Protecting my Child after I was accused of PAS and how I was able to survive and fight through the corrupt court system. So stay tuned and please I welcome any comments by parents or children who have suffered through this false theory made up by a psychologist how was a closet pedophile.

It was not so long ago that women where actually blamed for being raped.

So now we find ourselves in a time when mothers are losing custody of their children, not because of abuse, not because of being a bad mother, not because of neglect, but because they were willing to protect themselves and children. And just like in the old days not that many years ago, once again somehow we are being dismissed or worse being blamed for being a good mother.

How many women were silenced after they were raped and how many years did these atrocities go on? How many judges and lawyers actually helped to victimize the woman and help set the rapist free. Far, far too many before our legal system finally paid some attention to the harm that was being done to us.

Now women are losing their children at an alarming pace to fathers who have either abused them or their children. And guess what? These women are being blamed and their children are being punished for daring to speak up against the abuse that is being done to them. A mother losing her child is a traumatic as a woman being raped, it is not something that is easily if ever overcome. It is life changing and life damaging to children. Yet now not only do the judges and the lawyers that part in this victimization and blame of the mother, but they are joined by a chorus of greedy court appointed psychologist, custody evaluators and Guardian-ad-litems who will  do and say almost anything for a buck or another referral.

I am appalled that so many women don’t want to believe what is happening, that they to can lose their child in a heart beat. Most of us married men that we loved and trusted and never believed that such a thing could happen even if we divorced.  Don’t fool yourself, if you aren’t already. If you are married to a controlling abusive, narcissistic man than you are married to the equivalent of a rapist and you will be treated the same way in the court as those women, and your children will suffer beyond belief.

I read these website/blogs about women going through divorce or trying to get away from abusive husbands, we can all write until we are blue in the face, but until we join forces and march on Washington on Mother’s Day and take a stand, then we will continue to live with uncertainty and years of legal battles. Stop being victims and join us in Washington to stop this madness.

What would you do if you couldn’t see your Mom anymore?

The family court has been involved in a dirty little secret of selling your child to the highest bidder in custody battles. Yes, it is hard to fathom that all are involved including judges, lawyers, lawyer-guardian-ad-litems, court appointed psychologists and custody evaluators who can make a buck off the back of children in harms way. Groups have been formed all across the country trying to shine light on the travesty that is happening in our family courts. There is so much written about it on the web, one has to be blind, or unconcerned not to notice what has been going on while the Family court industry churns through families and their bank accounts daily.

In any other country if a government could just willy-nilly take your children from you, along with much of your financial property than that would be considered war. And a war it has become, a war on mothers, a war in which children are the carnage of a greedy legal system. Why do I say this? Because, women have been sounding the alarms all across our country writing everyone from their local representatives right up to the president’s office, and the sound is deafening.

Mothers are no longer looked upon with respect or as a necessary part of our children’s upbringing. We are constantly reminded how important it is for a child to have a father in their life, but should that be at the expense of losing a mother? Apparently so   according to many family court judges. It has been proven that when a woman asks for a divorce trying to get away from an abusive relationship, while trying to protect her children, she is punished, and deemed unimportant in that child’s life.

We are at war with our government if it doesn’t start protecting the sacred bond between a mother and her child. So I will include the many links of groups of women who have been fighting for this issue in hopes that together we can become a large army to fight for the right to have a loving, nurturing bond with our children. This is a call to arms, we must come together and fight this war that has been waged against us, because we are women, because we are mothers.

Protecting My Child

Protecting My Child tells the story of Miriam, a young woman who falls in love and later
discovers that the man she loves is a stranger with a terrible, destructive secret that threatens not only her life, but the life of their son.
For years to come, Miriam will experience an abusive relationship, a bitter divorce, and the turmoil of a court system that fails to do what’s best for herself or her son. Beaten, desperate, and terrified, Miriam takes drastic action… action so drastic that it earns her a place on the FBI’s Most Wanted List.
Through epic battles with a corrupt judiciary and personal strife, Miriam will discover a strength she didn’t know she had, and find connection with a God she never before believed in. Throughher remarkable story we see the lengths of a mother’s love and the triumph of  the human spirit over adversity.